Batchelor going Husband............

I have been reading through the bolgs posted by my friend Abru. Hmm then I realized that this is a good place for me to hangout and to relies my mind. And that is what am indented to do here.

Now a days there is a very unusual thought going on my mind, which had never came before. This whole thing started after my engagement.

Before going to that I think we have to dig up a little about my past life.

I have been always a quite and calm type person (my friends would have a little different opinion). I had spend my life with a society of mixed culture and status. I used to have a lot of friend boys and girls, but never had any girl friend (lover) in my entire life( Not a gay for sure). I don’t know whether any one from the other side had a crush on me. I used to have lot of hangouts with my all type of friends and I used to be an unavoidable part of each get-together.

All these days of my life, each and every girl was just a ordinary girl and I didn’t even felt any affection other than friendship.


But now a days, it is happening like each girl I sees on the roads, in the office and even on a book, except the girls I know personally, is becoming very attractive to me. I don’t know why it is happening every suddenly.

I clearly know that I like the girl which am going to marry and exactly telling I love her and the first love in my life.

I had tried to find the reason for this type of change and thought in mind and my brain gave the answer for that.

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My brain answered me:

Hey this is all your fault. A human should progress in his life as the same way he is getting progress in this school life. It should happen step by step For going to the 2nd standard (second year in the school) he should spend one entire year in 1st standard. If you skip the 1st standard, you will have to face lot of problems in the second year.

So before you have decided to get married ,would have tried loving some one as a man. Now the man in you is trying to make use of this little time left to compensate for the mistake what you have done and it is really confused of which one to pick up. You where ignoring him or had been suppressing his desires the entire time.

But don’t get worried you will be okay after the marriage. And the finest thing is that, you will be very lucky that you are going to marry your first love. I believe this is your first love. Don’t take my words now, let me confirm with mind regarding that.

So dude you don’t have to worry. This is a little frustration of your Batchelor Consciousness to make up the time which he lost.

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I am always thankful to my brain for this advise. Otherwise I would have gone mad. This is my version of the situation before going to get married, I don’t know about others. If you also have any such experience please let me know.

Take the life as it come, don’t mess with it.